Is there a true love?
Many of us fall in love. Does falling in love really mean you are falling?
Initially you get swayed by it and you enjoy the new feeling and even the pain seems pleasure. But once you get mature in the relationship, the identity of being an individual grows. Then the smaller things which gave you happiness once, becomes the cause of pain later.
“Expectations” around that special someone becomes a great problem.
Love is an adventure, when you don’t know what is going to happen next. Love is best when it is spontaneous. In the beginning you express even the smaller things in such a creative way which wins hearts for sure. But after few years, the same creativity vanishes, and you don’t even communicate totally to your soul mate, and there is possibility of lack of expression as you take the other person for granted.
The effort one puts in the beginning to win the other person’s hearts goes on diminishing. Then the sense of insecurities arises in a long time relationship and the whole point of being together becomes a meaningless question. The yearning for each other is the most in the initial years of dating. Once you don’t get that someone in time, you lose interest in everything.
It is nobody’s fault. Indian society imposes right or wrong in everything. A person is not allowed to make his choice, and even if he makes his choice, he is not given a right to fulfill it. This creates a great resistance in mind, and the person goes on yearning and crying for that one choice he makes in his life, his Love.
If it takes too long to convince that this is the right person I want to spend my life with, then there is a possibility of getting tired. And even if the world welcomes your choice then, you are not in a position to rejoice it. What’s the whole point guys?
Should 2 people wait for each other so long to convince their parents and to get their blessings to start their journey for so long; that they lose the strength and desire or just go and start on their life?
Its all in one’s perception. But if you ask me, please dude, what are you waiting for? Just go for it, once you got that special someone. That way at least you will be happy.