Three Golden Rules

Based on my experiences towards and from life, I had given a thought over it for quite some years and decided to jot down something that would help all of us to carry our lives forward in better manner; an approach to create simple humans, fewer wars, more acceptance and truth and comfort in living.

The gems laid down below are not just theories or any points picked up from any where, but on the contrary, they are summarizing the better and simple way of living as per my experiences.

  • Never ever try to teach, explain, or train anybody by indirect, verbal or hard (written) approach unless there is a hunger (need) and a level of understanding in the person. Otherwise, your teachings go waste. Don’t keep giving advices, comments and lectures when not required. Confirm whether the person listening really has a need for that and he has an intellect, social, and mental level to accept and understand them.
  • Accept your mistakes with pride and honor in front of everybody. Never hide your mistakes, crimes and sins. This helps you become a simple and a better individual. This will redefine your life and help you grow intellectually, socially and spiritually.
  • You are never answerable to anybody for your actions but to your own Conscience (self). Never betray yourself. Whenever you are confused and doubtful about doing any action in life, sit down quietly for a while and ask your inner self, is this right? The answer comes. Trust me, it works. Try to listen to your inner voice whenever needed. This will again help you in becoming a better and clear, simple person.

About mohitvalecha

Mohit is an optimistic day-dreamer and romancer who gave up his 11 year old software profession experience to build his dream in Creative Writing. He writes blogs, articles, reviews, children stories, fiction and non-fiction spirituality books to promote reading and provide a meaning to people’s lives. If he is not reading or writing, you would find him making mock, cock and all other kinds of tails or playing with his charming son Krishna. His life is a love triangle with three corners being Devi, Krishna and his Guru, Sirshree. Mohit’s passion is Meditation, Heal and Help people and play “Bhi ta!” (Another form of Hide-&-Seek) with Krishna.
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2 Responses to Three Golden Rules

  1. Devi says:

    The 3 golden rules you have listed seem to be true.
    For you first rule: You should always share ur knowledge to everyone, yes they should be in need of it, that’s right…… i guess its on the GIVER’s perspective. You should keep giving knowledge, love, without any conditions… because sometimes people may be in need but they may not ask you for it, so at that time its ur call, whether to help that person or not….. I think ur advice, or maybe some points which you share with people may make atleast 1% difference in their life which is also a lot in itself……
    For 2nd rule: You are right, people usually dont accept their mistakes. Its about how they accept it gracefully.
    For 3rd rule: This point jotted down here is the one i liked the most. Coz whatever we do, at the end of the day, even if its right from other’s viewpoint, ur conscience should feel it is right. You are answerable to your self for your actions.

  2. mohitvalecha says:

    Thanks devi..
    For the first rule…i agree you should not consider giver’s perspective and keep sharing, and you said it might matter 1 %.. Agreed…if you sharing lots of efforts and achieving 1% success rate, instead share to the right people and achieve 100% success rate..think about it!!

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